This one is for you ladies. I’m a 23-years-old boy who’s been pretty successful with women. Most of the times I was the one taking the necessary steps, but from time to time a girl would approach me and get so deep inside of my head that I would do pretty much anything for her. I thought back about those times and, in particular, thought about the “techniques” girls used on me to GET MY PHONE NUMBER. 99% of the time, this is how it went down:
1) Make and hold eye contact. Approaching guys is very different to approaching girls. A guy can just come up to a girl, try a cheesy or not-so-cheesy line, ask a simple question or tip her on the shoulder to start a conversation. A girl can do that, as well, BUT, it can come across as super needy super fast. That’s why eye contact is very important. When trying to get noticed by a guy, I would say that eye contact it THE MOST IMPORTANT weapon. Don’t stare at him, but risk a glance from time to time. When the time comes and your eyes meet, your chances of talking to that guy will DOUBLE if you…
2) SMILE! This has been proven by scientists and pretty much any other person interacting with people. A nice smile on your face simply makes you MORE ATTRACTIVE. In a study done by a communication company one half of the sales staff was instructed to smile during their calls, the other half communicated as they always would. Can you guess what happened? Even with no visionary aid, the phone calls done by the sales staff WITH THE SMILE were exceedingly more successful than the other sales calls. Attracting guys works very similar. Make eye contact, give him a nice smile and…
3) WAIT and conquer him. Talking from experience, I would say that 75% of the time THE GUY WILL APPROACH YOU if you mastered the first two steps. If not, here’s what you need to do. Make sure that you built eye contact, that you gave him a wonderful, pretty smile and that he responded to you by smiling back, winking, or anything that would translate in “hey pretty, I noticed you, and….”. If you got that far COMMAND HIM OVER. I can’t express how cool, exhilarating, and exciting it was when I got asked to approach the girl. This is what she would do: She looked me in the eyes, gave me a sexy, nice, seductive smile, and did the “come over here” with her finger. That blew me away. I was so excited and my pulse was on max. From there on she pretty much had the power to do anything. She asked me for my phone number and the party eventually continued from there on.
I know I wanted to give you a technique to show how to get a guy’s phone number. But this is sooooo good you can use it for so much more. So: Master the 3 steps, practice them, go over them in your head and then nail them! Enjoy 🙂
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